Saturday, June 28, 2025
Budget "Europe" for Summer
Wednesday, June 25, 2025
Portland Coffee Tour 2025 - Part 6
June has been a great month to get out of the house and go hang at a coffee shop. You know I love a cool coffee shop vibe, almost as much as I love a great cup of coffee. Portland knows how to brew beans and turn them into something magical and I really found some of those special places this month.
If you enjoy a good cup of coffee, brewed in a chill environment, read on for some shops to hit up if you come to Portland (we're in the top 10 cities for inclusivity for LGBTQ+ travelers, in the top 20 cities that are best for visiting for 4th of July, and our airport is awesome) or if you live here and are looking for a new spot.
Chilita's Coffee
There are so many coffee shops in bookshops, but this one is actually in the lobby of the Tigard Public Library. I wasn't expecting it, since nowhere does it say that it's not on the street, but I wasn't upset by it. This shop serves up basic espresso drinks - I got a vanilla latte - and breakfast sandwiches. They don't look like much, but they are simple and delicious. The seating here was so chill that I hung out to do some work for longer than I absolutely needed to.
The lobby is really bright and open, with tall ceilings and two entire walls of windows. There's also an art installation hanging from the ceiling. It's welcoming and comfortable. You can pick up reserved books via their book lockers or you can finish your drink and go peruse the library. This shop also serves puffle waffles with ice cream, danishes, yogurt, and lunch sandwiches, so you're set for whatever time of day you visit.
Baristopia
I have been meaning to go to this little self-contained neighborhood for a while. They are apartments on top and the street in the middle has retail and restaurants on the bottom floor with (limited) parking. There's even a dental office here, so you almost don't have to leave if you live there. Baristopia has a gorgeous Instagram and I was excited to have a little bit of time to nip over there and try out their coffee.
They have your standard espresso drinks and then a handful of specialty drinks that all sound amazing. I asked the barista for her recommendation and she Sweet Europe Latte, which is a tiramisu base with Irish cream and sprinkles of cocoa powder on top. It sounds like a lot, but it really all complemented each other and was an awesome mix. I also chose a pistachio rose croissant. They're made by a local bakery called Nuvrei. The croissant is really pink and the pistachio filling was just enough and a pretty green. They top them with big pink sugar crystals.
The shop itself is Asian owned and brought their roasting style from Shanghai. While there, the owner was experimenting with different flavor combos, so I know how they got this drink that I was currently drinking. It has the popular clean white and wood interior, but with a hint of cabin cozy with a large seating area surrounding a fireplace. If you time it right, you can get a quick, light breakfast here and then walk down the block and eat lunch at one of the interesting restaurants there, like the Asian chicken wings taproom.
Battle Grounds Gaming Cafe
I've been working really hard on growing the community around the nonprofit I am on the board of and we have started holding what we call magical meet and greets, where we get current and potential volunteers to come meet us and play some games and chat and ask us any questions they have. Our last one was held at a gaming shop called Battle Grounds, where you can play D&D and other TTRPGs and also eat and drink while there. The cafe has a lot of delicious espresso drinks and a big selection of pastries (some of which might also come from Nuvrei) from Farina Bakery and bagels from Spielman's. There's even meat and cheese platters.
Now, I didn't view this as a regular coffee tour stop, because I was mostly there in another capacity, but the drinks were delicious. I had two. I had a regular vanilla latte and then their campfire smores latte. I also picked up the Everything Galette, which was a super buttery pastry with cream cheese and everything bagel seasoning. Everyone who stopped at the coffee bar and came in to meet us was very complimentary of what they got.
Next month I'll be out of town for a good portion of it, so I'm already jumping on my July visits early. One is a different location that I reviewed quite a few years ago and one is a totally new coffee lounge altogether, so stay tuned for those and another shop I have yet to decide on. If you follow me on Instagram, you'll see short reviews of those already, plus new places (to me) I'll be drinking at in Vegas and in the Tacoma, Washington area.
Tell me your favorite coffee shops from wherever you are or wherever you've traveled.
Wednesday, June 18, 2025
Where To Go Right Now As a Queer Traveler
Pride Month may be halfway over and you might not even be traveling right now. That's okay, because there are places you can visit all year that are safe, welcoming, and help you engage with new people in the queer community. It can be scary going to a new place, especially as a minority, woman, or LGBTQ, so I wanted to do a little research for those of you who want to travel, but aren't entirely sure where you should go.
You don't want to keep going back to the same places you've been to before, even if it is tried-and-true, you can only visit those places so many times before you're longing for something else. Yes, this is coming from someone who visits Las Vegas multiple times per year, but it's not the only place I visit and it's also never my big trip of the year. It's just one of the smaller getaways I take, but unlike a lot of destinations, Las Vegas is continually changing.
Some countries that are moving towards a more inclusive environment are:
- Barbados - while British Colonial law seems to have been cemented in this country's history, and gay & lesbians haven't always had the easiest time, Barbados lifted their ban on same-sex activity just in 2022. I'm not sure how they enforce a law without being in people's bedrooms, but this is a big step towards more accepting society.
- Chile - a pioneer in the queer acceptance front (in South America), Chile legalized same-sex marriage in 2022 and has created a number of laws since 2019 surrounding gender equality, trans rights, and the outlaw of conversion therapy. Santiago's pride month is the 3rd largest in South America and prohibits for-profit brands from participating.
- Estonia - the Baltics are a bit behind when it comes to marriage equality and rights, but Estonia became the first of them to legalize same-sex marriage (2024) and public opinion on same-sex relationships is on the rise as well. There's no Pride Month here, but Baltic Pride rotates country (Estonia, Latvia, and Lithuania) each year. It's not ideal, but it's possible that changes in the future and maybe other Baltic countries will take their lead.
- Greenland - last year saw the passing of the Law on Equal Treatment and Anti-Discrimination, but same-sex marriage has been legal in Greenland since 2016. Greenland finally has a direct flight from the U.S., establishing itself as a tourist destination, but it also launched this Pride Month and welcomes queer travelers to its progressive environment for equal rights.
- India - though same-sex marriage isn't legalized (yet), India has been evolving on acceptance of the queer community over the years, officially ruling that same sex couples could be recognized as familial units and also qualifying for social security. Their KASHISH Pride Film Festival in Dubai has over 150 films and 10,000 attendees.
- South Africa - same-sex marriage was legalized in 2006 and last year they passed the “Prevention and Combating of Hate Crimes and Hate Speech Bill”, which has largely been met with enthusiasm, especially among LGBTQ+ advocacy groups. Cape Town is also slated to hold World Pride in 2028.
- Thailand - the second Asian country to legalize same-sex marriage is not only warm, but also very affordable. The new law that grants same-sex couples equal legal, financial, and medical rights as heterosexual couples. It also gave them adoption and inheritance rights.
- San Francisco, California (obvs)
- Hartford, Connecticut - this was a surprise to me, but now I feel like I should go visit.
- Las Vegas, Nevada
- Portland, Oregon (yay!)
- Denver, Colorado
- Los Angeles, California
- San Diego, California
- Sacramento, California
- Chicago, Illinois
- New Orleans, Louisiana
- San Jose, California
- Richmond, Virginia (so rich in history, too!)
- Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania (home of Mister (Fred) Rogers)
- Baltimore, Maryland
- Milwaukee, Wisconsin
- Florida
- Indiana
- Kansas
- North Carolina
- Memphis, Tennessee0:00 / 3:46
- Houston, Texas
- Jacksonville, Florida
- Birmingham, Alabama
- Miami, Florida
- Dallas, Texas
- Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
- Tampa, Florida
- St Louis, Missouri
- Kansas City, Missouri
Personally, I enjoy visiting destinations that are progressive or are attempting to do better when it comes to the treatment and equality of people. All people. I'm a strong ally for marginalized people and I want to support places that are doing what is right and are supporting people of all types. Those are the communities I feel should get my tourist dollars.
Make sure to use Equaldex and Global Change Data Lab to help you plan your trips when you're unsure of safety, laws, and public opinion scores. You can also use these tips and resources, and use social media to ask your friends about their experiences.
Travel well and happy, knowing you chose the best places for you. Tell me your favorite cities/countries that are welcoming to all.